I have been dating this guy(J) who I knew through dating website. Previously, I met several guys online but none of them gave me this special feeling except him. Unlike the other guys I dated where they expect you to return them with something, such as expecting to touch my body or even sex, when they treated me for meals and said they liked me and I showed my interest. Of coz I ended up telling them I am not that "kind" of girl and they just left from my lives. I was told by my friends that guys treat girls that they are dating into two categories: "Hook up" or "a girl that they may spend their rest of their lives with". Obviously, the guys I dated viewed me as the first category although I was wearing normal clothings. Anyway, J initiated talking to me after looking my profile at the dating site. I decided to reply him after I saw how cute he looks at his profile. We chatted for a day with almost instant reply from him before I initiate to ask for his contact as he did not seem to get any of my hint to ask for my contact. Soon, I told him how the previous guy I dated left me coz I did not want to give him sex. He told me that is better that I did not enter relationship with him as he is a jerk. I was touched by his words although I know those are just words. Not long after that, he initiate to meet me and I was insecure about it the day before I met him, he replied that he is looking forward to meet me the next day. Soon, our first date begin at an expensive Japanese restaurant which he suggested because I told him I like to eat Japanese food. We chatted quite well and there were some sparks although none of us had any physical interaction during dinner. After that, we brought me to a pub and we drank. We talked abt our past relationship. J asked why was I still feeling upset abt the previous guy I dated. I told him that I felt betrayed as he left me and soon moved on to date another girl as I saw his Facebook. J said that isn't it my fault that I still kept him in Facebook and I am actually hurting myself? I cried hearing it and perhaps due to effects of alcohol which show my true emotions. He quickly passed me a packet of tissue and asked of I was ok. I left for toilet a while and came back and saw he actually call my phone several of times when i was away as J was worried about me. I felt like I made a fool of myself and asked if we go leave as I want to rest. He asked how am I going home and I said I intend to take bus back. He told me he will send me home by cab and while in cab, he sat closer to me and asked if I was alright. Perhaps of the heartbreak and loneliness, I grabbed his arm and leaned my head on his shoulder. He did not let go of his arm and in fact tightened his arm around my hand. On second date, i said i like him and he said he did not like me as he need more time knowing someone. I told him I understand and will try to stop liking him. He said no need as just need a longer time to like a girl. We met two more dates and he would either send me home or send me to bus stop and ask if am I really home at least. I tried to stand further from him but he will initiate to stand close to me. We laughed and had fun whenever we r together and he is always gentleman to pay for everything during the dates. He is probably the only guy I knew who do not expect anything for now. However, we text everyday but he did not initiate to ask me out on dates. What is he really thinking????