Let me start out by saying I'm 16 and my step sister showed me this website a couple of days ago so I thought it would be good for me having a second opinion for my situation. My Mom and I were having problems with each other where she was yelling and cussing at me all the time. I didn't do it half as much as she did but I didn't exactly do anything to get her to stop. I moved out because I got fed up. It sounds sensible, but it isn't. I had two, amazing best friends. I lived at one of the best beaches in the entire country, and I had a school that I was completely comfortable with and it had a lot of promise to it. I didn't go to any clubs, I didn't focus on my grades, left my friends, and all because I just didn't kiss my Mom's ass, which I think I should have just done. Now I live two states away and I'm at a school I'm miserable at. The only good thing that has come out of this is that I can see my family up here and that's pretty much it. I've already been labeled at the school I'm at and I'm depressed when I have to go and it just makes me want to move back so bad. I miss my Mom terribly and I miss my school. It was the first time that I've actually really liked going to school. I've made a huge mistake. I emailed my Mom the other day, and it was a huge long message telling her that I'm so sorry and I hate going to the school here and she wants me to come back. I've cried so much these past few months and last week when I first started school I couldn't eat for days. The obvious answer would be to move back, but I'm afraid of hurting my family's feelings up here, especially my Dad. They spent money and time to come and get me from there. (Well, more like my Dad bringing my brother along and practically ignoring me the entire time. That's a downside.) But my step mother gathered a lot of money to get me up here and I'll feel so guilty. I'll feel like a terrible, selfish person, but I'm not happy here.
I want to go home to my friends and my Mom and the beach! I mean I like it here too, the country is nice, but it's not where I'm supposed to be. I still talk to my best friend everyday back home and our friendship hasn't diminished in the slightest. (My other one a little but only because her life's a little complicated right now.) I miss them so much. How do I break it to my Dad I want to go back to my Mom? I don't want to hurt his feelings.
(!! Please help me.
you wont do well if you are not happy,you can always repay money when you start earning,go where you feel comfortable and happy .