I have had nothing but troubles since I decided to find a mate online, since I have been in the south. Not all of them were at fault some of the problems were mind. Now you take for instant this last man I will call him Kenny we got alone great had many things in common had talked for maybe also most a year, then something happen that made me get upset it was really a miss understanding, I did not explain what the message meant instead I let things get out of control, and on top of that I got so upset I told him I was a man not sure why I did that but I did, I realize I had messed up a beautiful relationship, yes Kenny was waiting for me to move to Texas, so I never heard from him again, but I continue to e mail him and this past Feb 2013 he rejoined the site in which we met, he claimed that he forgave me, and that he thought it would be better if we waited up til I came to Texas and got to know each other better, all the time he was telling me he would not intentionally do this or that and then one day he shut down his tag page he did leave me a message but once you leave the message is gone also, well I guess he is not forgiving as he claimed, there are no two people that will have everything in common they will have somthings in common but no all, I guess he wants perfection, and maybe that is why its hard for him to find that one, I am just here to get therapy so I won't have to dwell on him.
There's plenty of other guys out there, just because one relationship didn't go as planned doesn't mean another wont. & think about it this way. No one is perfect. So you did nothing wrong
It is possible he may have sent you the message with good intentions, but didn't realize it would get deleted when he shut down his page. Maybe he wanted to leave the site and was giving you personal contact information so you could get a hold of him after he shut down his profile.
You could try to look him up and get a phone # or email so you can ask him what he really deleted his profile for.