I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and about four months. We are long-distance except for when I am home for the summer. When I returned to school this August everything seemed fairly normal, not as intense as when I went away for school the first time last year but I figured that was normal. But now I haven’t heard from him in two weeks. We usually talk every day pretty much most of the day. The first three days he didn’t respond to any of my messages I got worried so I called him concerned about his safety. He answered and said he had someone change his Facebook password and his phone broke at the same time preventing him from sending texts but he wasn’t trying to fix it because he is trying to step back from technology. I was frustrated and asked why he didn’t think to tell me and he said he didn’t think it was a big deal. I got frustrated and admittedly ended the conversation prematurely but hoped that he would contact me because he now knew I was upset. Since that phone call it has been a week and half and nothing. I called him again two days ago and left a message asking him to contact me somehow and he hasn’t responded. I do not know what to do. I have always been insecure in our relationship even though I thought he is an honest guy because I have a medical condition that prevents me from having sex, and I have worried in the past that he might look elsewhere for pleasure. Part of me wants to say screw him and consider myself single, while another part thinks that is not fair and that I should contact his best friend to see if he can give me any insight as to what is happening in case he is going through something personally. Anyone have advice? It is making me sick with stress and I can’t focus on my work.
hmm u have nt written ur age..any way I think u r thinkng a lot..relax and stop thinking ....think positve...and there may be other reasons..dont thing negatives.....just wait for another couple of days...in the mean times....try to find out the real situation from any of ur common friend..but i advise you be calm ...dont stressed..if he dont respond after ur another efforts ..u will definately gets a better one...be happy...arora