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My Bf watches BRUTAL porn? What does it mean?

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My bf and I have incorporated pornography into our sex, it was great for a while but the other night he brought out a new one that got me a bit worried. I wont go into details but it wasn't a consensual gang bang (even though it was acting). I told him that it made me uncomfortable and he turned it off. I just wonder if this says something about his personality? Should I be worried? Am I right to be questioning this?

My Bf watches BRUTAL porn? What does it mean?

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Introducing pornography into sex is normal, very erotic and perfectly harmless. When it goes beyond the acceptable boundaries of one partner however this is more of a problem. You are right to be concerned but you have done the right thing by telling him how you feel about the pornography he was sharing with you. He was pushing your boundaries and by your reaction you have shown him where your boundaries lie. Hopefully that will be the end of it as he has learnt how far he can go. If you think that he is continuing to watch violent pornography and he shows less interest in sex with you then it might be the time to be more concerned.

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