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I am in a very bad situation and do not know what to do

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The issue is that i went in relation with a girl for 5 months but through this relation no physical interaction happened between us even i did not hold her hands as she is very conservative. The issue that after this period she break up as she see that we are different mentalities and she see that i have problem in trust. and she wanted us to return it back as friends but i refused and insulted her. i told her that she do not have femininity and that i should adjusted her from the beginning and a lot of other bad words. I tried to retain her again after a 2 weeks through sending her messages and trying to call her but she refused to answer and asked me not to send her more messages. I do not know what to do. I got an idea to send her gift in her birthday that will be after 3 month but i do not know whether it is good idea or not. and i am afraid from her reaction. So do you have any advice to my situation or solution for this problem. Noting that she blocked me in facebook , whatsap,,.....etc.

I am in a very bad situation and do not know what to do

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I think that before you try to further pursue her, you should give her some time to calm down. It is very easy to react with anger when someone breaks up with you, but that is an action that you will likely grow to regret because once you say something mean to someone, you can't take it back. Do not overwhelm her with messages, phone calls, emails, or anything like that... Give it about 1-2 weeks, and see if she tries to contact you. If she doesn't, send her a short message saying that you apologize for saying mean things to her and genuinely ask for her forgiveness. If she doesn't respond, it may just be time to move on... She did state that she doesn't think you guys are right for each other, and even though you may not want to accept that, it may be true... Good luck hun!

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