Please give advice!!!!!!!
I'm a 30 year old woman with a 15 month old son and a fiancé (babys father). I feel like I do NOT want to get married, let alone even be in this relationship any longer! My fiancé does nothing but goes to work then comes home and does NOTHING to help me. Doesn't watch the baby so I can get house work done doesn't help me with the house work, he doesn't even pick his own dirty dish up any more, So the other day I told him he needed to help me out more, wither watch the baby for me or help me clean or do laundry take out the trash ... something. his response "Im not doing anything when I get home". needless do I say I snapped!!! Well ive noticed that for the last 2 weeks hes becoming more of an @**hole to me as each day passes. Not to mention that im pretty sure he can even careless about playing with the baby. Heres my problem ... I really don't want to be with him any more. BUT I don't have any money, no where to go, no career, I seriously don't have anything; and I don't even know where to begin! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
Unfortunetly he is no longer in love with you either if he cared at all about you no matter how tired he would ask if there is anything he can do to help or at least communicate to you that he is really tired. These are all signs that he knows you have no where to go he can do whatever he wants so sad. I would see about moving in and sharing a home with someone or family or something this will only gets worse the a--hole will become abusive.
yes unfortunately irishmommy i agree with johanna he does not care for you or he would be more supportive to you, i know so much how it feels to have nowhere else to go, but is there family as johanna asks you could stay with till you get on your feet? i hope so, take care, let me know how you get on x