He cheated now what
Me and my husband have been together 3 years married 15 months..he's military and I've just moved with him 3 months ago...well 2 weeks ago i found out he's been seeing another woman for the last year of our marriage..i saw text messages of him telling her he love her, that there getting , how great they are in bed together and how he will never her go..the hardest part for me to let go us that he had been having UNprotected sec with here since there third encounter when they slept together and the whole time he was Nutting in her telling her he wants her to have his baby...i don't know what to do i feel ass though if he want caught he would still be cheating onme..after that i found a page full of numbers of girls he had been meeting around he say he hadn't slept with no one but her but how can i trust him..on top of all this he has a porn addiction and all of this is killing me..my family warned me before i married him and left with him he would do me wrong now if i go hone there gonna say i told you so and my mom cut me out when i left town with him...i love him but i really truly don't deserve this
First of...sorry you are going through this.
Betrayal is never easy. I'm not going to sugar coat this so here goes...
Once a cheater always a cheater.
I really doubt this man will change. Facing the truth would be best for you. However if you are willing to forgive him do you think you can put all these images away and never bring them up? I really doubt it. I'm sorry but I think you're going to have to be the bigger and better person. Finding someone who gives you the same respect
Ask yourself if you are more in love with a fantasy man (what he could be) than the ugly reality of the louse you are living with (what he is). You may have been married for three years but he has never really been 'together' with just you. He broke his marriage vows pretty early into it. Get out while you still have some self-respect and dignity, and don't look back. You deserve way better. If we don't teach people to respect us, they really won't.
He does appreciate the woman he married and does not know how to. I do not believe that a man cannot change but, to do something like that so earlier in a marriage and to lack the dicipline that the military is supposed to have taught him means lesson learned for you. Get out and find someone special. Good luck!