Thank you for being open and sharing. I hope my words can help you...
Being bullied sucks. Many people (for the most part) bully others to feel better about themselves. Her believing that she is making you feel bad or embarrassed is helping her self esteem in a sadistic way.
I know you don't want to fight or argue back with her but NEVER let her feel as though she has any right to touch you physically. She has crossed a line assaulting you- even if it was with a water bottle. Yes, words can cut deep, but they are just WORDS. They only have meaning and power if you let them.
I went through a similar situation myself. It really isn't easy. The girl hassled me just the same. About my grades, clothes and hair. In fact, she even had a couple of other students give me a hard time as well, especially one that I thought was a friend. One day, the boy who hung out with them decided to come behind me and smack me on the back of the head. I lost it Alonegamer... I actually went after him. Everyone could tell I was angry. He ran around the desks trying to stay away from me, but also, wanting to continue taunting me.
I thought he wanted me to fight- I thought they all did because I rarely showed my emotions. They did want to get a rise out of me, I realized they didn't really want to fight me but, wanted to get a reaction out of me. I did give them what they wanted in a sense.
I never did fight any of them but, I did convey to them that they may say whatever they want but NO ONE- would lay a hand on me. That is the ultimate show of disrespect to me.
You do need to stand up for yourself- perhaps call a meeting with a teacher. Tell them that you know she doesn't like you, so why does she continue to talk to you? Why is she so obsessed with you? Yes, saying this may piss her off but- its the truth. Why does she care so much about what you do? Who you hang out with and what you wear or say is none of her business.
If this is a private school you attend they should be even more diligent in stopping bullying. Public school- sometimes your just on your own and may not get the help you need.
There is nothing wrong with you! She is the one comparing herself to you! She is the one who needs to feel better about herself. Stop downing yourself and listening to the lies she tells. She is a hater... She may not like being called that and may become angry with you, but remind her if she cares so less about you, then she should leave you alone.
Good luck, and I hope things turn out for the better for you!
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