hi! i'm in a relationship fr 2 n a half yrz now..here is wat happened few days bak...i hav a frnd...fr whom i had feelins bfore i met my gf..i met her in a party few days bak...n i hugged her lyk real tight n she hugged me bak ..n i realised dat i actually luv dis girl.. now m feelin guilty dat i hav cheated on my gf.. i thnk the girl i hugged doesnt luv me as she told me dat itz jus a friendly hug...i met my gf n cried but i dint say a word...wat shud i do now?? m in a fix.. i cant leave my gf coz m afraid shez veryyy lonely n wat if she commits suicide?? n d girl i hugged derz noway dat vr goin to be togethr..shez way too rich..n she doesnt luv me..
Well, you are obviously unhappy in your relationship with your girlfriend - can you talk with her and do something about that? Maybe she is unhappy too. As for the other girl, if she doesn't love you, then it's a waste of time to keep thinking about her. Work on the relationship you do have and, if you can't make it better, move on. You are not responsible for your girlfriend's state of mind and shouldn't stay with someone just because you feel sorry for them or are afraid of how they might react - that is entirely her responsibility. I feel the relationship you need to work on most is the one with yourself. I feel you are a bit lost and lonely and don't know what you really want to do with your life. Take some time out alone to get more in touch with your feelings and your dreams.