At a loss
My boyfriend and I just broke up yesterday, the reason being silly and just a misunderstanding. yesterday i got off work early and i knew that he was still sleeping so i wanted to surprise him when he woke up. so i went home and waited for him to text me and let me know he was awake. while i was waiting for him to wake up i ended up laying down and started falling asleep while i was waiting for him to text me. before i layed down i made sure my phone was near me so i would know when he texted me. when he finally texted me i had started falling asleep but i responded to his message and then closed my eyes again. he responded back and i heard my phone go off and i read the message but i didnt respond back. i ended up falling back asleep. but i ended up waking up like 30 minutes later because my dog had started barking at something. so when i woke up i texted him back and i let him know that i had got off work early and made plans to surprise him but i ended up going home and falling asleep and that i would come over in a little bit. well he asked me to come over then to explain because he wasnt understanding what i was talking about. so when i got over there he started asking me questions about what i was saying and why i never told him that i was off work and if i wanted to surprise him then why didnt i. its all just a misunderstanding. but he was saying that it didnt make sense as to why i would go out of my way to ruin my own surprise when i still could have done it because he thought i was still at work. and i couldnt explain why i told him about the surprise it just made sense to me. but to him he doesnt believe me and he thinks i'm hiding something and i was doing something i wasnt supposed to be just because i didnt tell him i was off work and that i ruined a surprise that i still could have done. so what should I do? I've tried talking to him and explaining myself and asked if we could just work this our but he has not responded back to any of my messages. should I just let go and move on or should I continue to fight? I love this boy more than anything in this world and I really believe he's the one for me. I need some advice
how can he be the one if he does not trust you over small things.Talk to him clearly,or look for a understanding guy
I understand that trust in a relationship is an important factor but he\'s come out and told me that he has trust issues. and that\'s something that I can respect that because I also have my insecurities and worries sometimes. and I feel like the reason that he has trust issues is because he had a rough life growing up. he never really had anyone there for him or had anyone that really cared for him and I feel like its hard for him to wrap his mind around the fact that someone is really all in with him. its like he has a guard up and he thinks that anybody that comes into his life is going to do him wrong like they have in the past.