Confused and scared
so for this past year there has been a boy that I truly care about, we became friends quick(a year ago like I said) and he was always there for, and vice versa. After a few months I decided to tell him how I felt but it was too late, he had someone. I missed my chance. Anyway for the whole year, he was with her off and on, when they would break up he would come back to me and we would get close again and then he would disappear when they would get back together. He always came to me about her saying he wasn't happy and she wasn't a great gf. Long story short, he we are a year later and they are done. So about 3 weeks ago we began texting again, we got close of course like every other time and he came over this past weekend. We were intimate, which is something we both wanted. The next day he texted me first, being very sweet. He brought me food to work and all that. But my problem is, it's been a few days since he's talked to me, and I'm scared he's gonna disappear, i texted him yesterday, no reply. Do I wait for him to come around? I don't wanna seem pushy but I'm impatient and terrified. I also don't know when the right time would be to bring up feelings? Please help me get some piece of mind. Anyone.
Call him - ask him what's up. You don't say your age but I assume you're to old for the "games" people play when getting into a "new" relationship, even though this is not a new relationship. Ask him straight out what he wants, where is this relationship going - be open, honest and vulnerable and tell him how you feel - but be prepared to not always hear what you want to hear - but knowing is better than wondering.
Hope it helps - good luck. L