Hello I'm dina my husband after a five year marriage he told me he wants divorce because i don't give him the love and sex he wants i told him he is right and ill try to do anything to fix it even i told him if he wants to take a break i don;t mind he refused all my solution's and crys and went out to find another house as our house is mine i tried calling him, friends and family tried to talk to him but he is not changing his mind . he is treating me so nice and calling me every other day to see how i'm doing and he wants me to be strong and insisting on bieng friends, i tried being angry with him but he stayed extra nice what can i do to get him back and make him reconsider especially that after starting doing the papers his mother told him to wait for a month he said ok but he is not going to change his mind because he feels like a prisoner not happy and bored because my funny out going personality has changed and that even if he gave me another chance maybe i'll change for a while and then i'll return the way i am and he doesn't want me to do something for him without me wanting to and just because i don't want divorce and he doesn't want to waste anymore time i'm 30 he is 34 what to do to get him back because i love him and don't mind the changes and i know we can fix this though he seems happier he made a new tattoo and hanging out with new friends and maybe has a new girl although he knows i'm a good person and helped him alot and he is still showing care thank you
He has a girlfriend who he likes and he wants to break up with you without hard feelings. I would be as good to him as he is to you, let him do what he wants to and go out yourself with others. If he wants to come back then you are there. But it will do no good to pull. In the meantime, maybe you will find someone who appreciates you more. You might even get to like being by yourself.