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I need a little opinion

So i usually don't like long distance relationships but there's this girl i just met that lives in germany and we've established an amazing connection, have so much in common and an amazing time talking to one another and she's shown interest in me several times and wants me to visit her as soon as possible, she can't spend the day without talking to me (and i'm not being needy, i don't even initiate the conversation most of the time) and i'm not really the ''nice guy'' at all so i doubt i'd just be friendzoned like that but the problem is mainly the distance and she's pretty insecure with that. Point is once she said ''My parents think i have a crush on you and they like it, they'd rather me date you than some other guy she friendzoned and likes her and when i asked if she really does have a crush on me (although i'm sure there must be something) she told me after typing for a while ''Not really...I mean i only know you on facebook and skype...maybe when we meet i will'' and all I wanna know, did I really fuck up and get myself friendzoned or is it just because of the distance and all? And in the worst case what can I do? Thanks for hearing me out!

I need a little opinion

There's not much you can do. You are not in the friendzone, you are in the cyberzone. Get to know her on-line. The real test will be when you see her in person. I bet her parents like you because you are on-line, only.

I need a little opinion

What does the Cyberzone really imply aside from that? Yeah, I already know her really well on the internet and she talks to me about her life and friends and all, and i'm usually a smooth guy so i won't have a problem when i meet her in person, the actual problem is getting to meet her haha. So you think that if i met he things will go around smoothly? And about her parents i think it's mostly because i'm italian (her dad is obsessed with italy and wants to move there) and that we've got the same interests at all and they even invited me to come over when they get a new appartment but yeah will be a while until i can...

I need a little opinion

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