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I can't tell if she is still interested or where we stand at this point

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Relationship advice We talked for a little over a month. When we set up a day to meet up she would put things on her twitter like "I can't wait until Sunday" with a heart at the end of it. Then she tweeted "Two more days" with a blushing face at the end of it. I figured she didn't like me because so I quit talking to her for a couple of days and she told one of my friends that she thought that I didn't like her. I told her I did. Two weeks later I asked her out and she said she does not want to date anyone right because of her parents divorce, the verbal abusive relationships that she was in, and the fact that she does not have much of a relationship with her dad anymore. I told her one night that I was going to call her but she told me that she is getting ready to watch a movie. I am not sure if that was the truth or an excuse. A couple of weeks later we went out of town to hang out and she texted me when I got home saying I have a feeling that I bored you today and I'm sorry. I told her that she didn't and I asked her why she would think that she refused to answer my question and changed the topic. I asked a couple of more times and each time she would change the topic. I bought her a Christmas gift last week and we made out and we both took it a little bit too far and she pulled my hands towards her breast. I tried texting her the next day but she would stop replying midway through the conversation. Saturday she texted me apologizing saying she should not have taken it that far and that she is trying to abstain from sex until marriage. I told her that I noticed that she didn't apologize for making out and she said "well that's different ;))" When I replied back to that text I didn't hear back from her and that's when I noticed that something was wrong. Sunday I asked her and she said that she has been hanging out with the wrong crowd and she is trying to turn her life around. When I told her to check her schedule later this week so we can hang out so she can take her mind off things she replied "Alrighty, I will." I decided to give her some space Monday. Tuesday I posted a FB status saying how blessed I am to have her in my life and she called me precious. She texted me later and we talked briefly. I called her a smart girl for not making New Year resolutions and she replied "hehehe ;))". She did not mention when she was free this week. I am not sure if she forgot or is avoiding me. Can anyone help me on what to do and where we stand?

I can't tell if she is still interested or where we stand at this point

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Have you ever tried catching a butterfly? Because that's what her actions are like.

This girl is not able to make a commitment - nor does she know what she wants.

If you like this kind of excitement in a relationship, then keep on with her.



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