Ive been friends with a guy for 4 years. I admit I am totally in love with him the problem being he is married. We had a 'fling' a couple of years ago and just lately we've been getting on really well. Talking online for hours. Then the other day he came off Facebook after he said he wanted to see me again. Im totally confused :/
The "problem"?? He is MARRIED!!!
HE has no right to be talking like this to ANY woman besides his wife.
YOU have no right to talk to any woman' HUSBAND like that.
Cut this off ASAP. Put the brakes on yourself. It's a no-win situation for you.
PS - Why would you "love" a cheating husband?
Thanks for your reply and I understand what mean. I wish It was that easy. I've really fallen for him YES it was wrong but I can't help how I feel. What's wrong with us talking again and seeing each other as friends. I don't get why he has just disappeared.
Please try to have some feelings for his wife.
You don't need to be in this relationship - move on.
Ive tried to move on for years but I can't.
As you already know I can relate to your situation. However the fact that he is married is reason enough to limit your contact with him. Being a friend is one thing. Being intimate with him is entirely different. If this were your husband I'm sure you wouldn't want him behaving in activity such as that. The heart wants what the heart wants, I get that. In this case the mind needs to override the heart and do the right thing which is to not be anything more than a friend especially if it could have a negative impact on their marriage. If he is unfaithful once, he'll do it again.
Thanks for your reply. That's what we have been - friends- for the past 2 years. I don't get why he has come off Facebook all of a sudden after we have been getting on so wwell
Unfortunately the only one that can answer that with 100% certainty is him. Speculation can lead to all sorts of results both positive and negative. There is nothing much you can do to understand his actions unless he explains them.
True. Thank you.