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Relationship advice I have been dating a girl for a little over three months. I mentioned to her after a night of drinking that I was not dating anyone else and would like to be exclusive. She said she wasn't dating anyone else and she agreed with being exclusive. The next day she did not remember much about the night because she was drunk. She didn't recall the exclusive dating talk we had and said it probably should have been brought up when we were drunk. I agreed with her assessment and said we could talk about it at a later date. How should approach the exclusive dating talk the next time?

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stone cold sober...why use alcohol to ask a person to be an exclusive a when they can't remember?

If you need courage to ask and discuss the issue of exclusive dating then you're probably asking the wrong person.

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Hey Beezy -
Just say something like ...Even tho we were both drinking the other night being exclusive has still been on my mind and I'm wondering what you think? I like you very much and would like to see where this relationship could go. Be sweet and considerate and not heart broken if she isn't ready for this step.
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Breezy - you ask how you can begin this conversation again - sober.

That tells me that you also got your courage from alcohol that evening. And she had a blackout and could not remember the conversation.

Both of you need to be careful about your drinking. A conversation as important as this one deserves to be done sober.

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