Lost all hope... don't know how to survive
Hello, i am a 23yr old girl.i have completed my engineering degree in 2013..i have a problem which may be many people are having ,, bt something very bad has happened which has totally devastated me...i belong from a good family.but there are relatives and neighbours who keep on poking and insulting relating to job issues,results etc etc....i am an average student...there are a few amongst my relatives n friends who don't want me to be successful in life...i took admission in an average engineering college..nd those idiots took advantage of this fact n kept on insulting me for four long years...however i dealt with all those stuff,,cried alone,,stayed away from others...jst after the completion of my engineering degree 'they' were very disappointed cz they thought i would fail in engineering...however i showed them my capability...........NOW BEGINS MY ACTUAL PROBLEM.......after obtaining a B.Tech degree some ppl were constantly insulting me like...'hey r u still jobless',, 'hey when will get a job? look at others,X has got in __ company,Y has got in___ company'..etc etc....................i was unable too answer them back cz my college did not provide good placements....i did not lose hope and kept on working for my goals....AND FINALLY..there came the day 30th October,2013...I GOT A JOB...nd dat too in a top tier multinational company.....but i am a loser...i am just a loser...why did God give me dat job wen He knew this was gonna happen ?? :'( till now after 3 long months no joining has come from that company n i think it will not come anymr...everybody else has got it, i am the only unlucky crap left out..ohh God why did this to me ?!!......i had declared to every body , my relatives,friends,neighbours,gave a status update on 30th Oct about my first job....bt all dat was a joke...no sign of joining till now....now i am unable to answer to evrybody...they a thinking i had lied about the job......i have deleted my FB account..life has become hell!!!! as it is i am a very lonely person...don't know how to cope with it....i have tried contacting back to the company but no response from them...why did they hire me at all??!! it was just a joke...now if i find another job people will insult me cz i think this one was the best comapny ever!!nd also recession is going on ,, jobs r less!! life without facebook has become hell...bt i have deleted it cz whenever i see my friends going to other cities for work, having a nice time over there,partying,enjoying i become thoroughly depressed.....nowadays i can't sleep properly....oh God y did i get that job at all if no joining!!!
Sorry about all this. You have worked very hard, earned a degree and now, because the economy is bad, you lost your job. This is not your fault and you must not let the words of other people to have power over you.
Do you have a resume? Can you get a good referral or recommendation from that last job?
Keep looking, dear. God has wonderful plans for you. You just need to keep your eyes open for opportunities.
PS - FB is for kids and retirees. Stop looking at that to make you feel good or bad.
Hello Sadleaf -
What country are you in? What does 'no joining' mean? Do you mean a company offered you a job but never had you come to work? Have you gotten a pay check?
Tell these creeps you seem to think are 'friends' the shove it! and do not listen to them or take to heart what they say...what makes them experts?
Keep looking and Keep in touch, we will offer all the support we can!
Keep your hear up! You should be proud of your self and your accomplishment! I am, Whatsup
Thanks all of u fr ur healthy advice..actually my situation is rather embarrasing.i had declared about my success to every1 bt actually i m doing notthing ,,jst sitting idle at home....yes i am working hard to get another job bt this one was my dream company..with lots of hard work i had accomplished my goal...bt lastly i m into such a humiliating situation...'no joining'!!
they hired me but did nt give me any joining date....did not expect such unprofessional behaviour from their side...i got ditched like this..wen i got d job i thought its all bcz of God...bt now i thnk God Himself had jst kinda joked with me....such an humiliating situation...i m nt able to express exactly wat i m going thru...PLZ GOD IF U WANT TO HURT ME LIKE THIS PLZ DO GIVE ME THAT STRENGTH ALSO TO SURVIVE...I WON'T FORGIVE U EVER...:'( :'( :'(