Seperated

Posted by
JM5811
on Jan 31 2014 at 00:41
Member since: 26 January 2014
Gender: Male
Relationship advice forum category advice forum category My wife and I have been separated for two weeks now. She has been living with her family. At first she was angry with me, upset, and just didn't really want to talk to me at all. The past few days I feel like it has been a little better than it has been, like maybe there is still a chance. We talk more almost everyday...when I asked she said she does miss my kisses, being together at night but she is trying to stay strong. She still has not said anything bout divorce so I am really confused about whats going on..Shes been nice to me and I asked her on a date tomorrow and she said she will think about it and let me know...shes not sure if shes ready yet, but before when I asked her she would flat out say no im not going out with you yet. Does anyone have any insight on what you think is going on? Do you think this separation and space is clearing her head and maybe there is still a chance. I hope she says yes to the date because I know I could show her a good time..
Reply from
MANALONE
on Jan 31 2014 at 01:08
Member since: 29 December 2013
Gender: Male
Your wife is having her space, she's clearing her head, she's sorting the issue.

JM, you need to realize that in a relationship there's two people and those two people have to put in daily to make it work. You're wife stopped doing this for whatever reasons and two weeks ago she distanced herself from you...and not so much the marriage.

If and when she has the NEED she will come back, but not before then.

You've been in contact, she's talking to you daily, she's starting to put in again..good signs but not concrete signs.

When we raise divorce, we have basically given up and can see no other way out. It's the legal way to terminate a marriage and it's final. So if she hasn't mentioned it...

And Jm there's ALWAYS a chance after 9 years...

Reply from
SUSIEDQQ
on Jan 31 2014 at 21:19
Member since: 27 December 2013
I hope you will be very quiet and LISTEN to what she says about your relationship. She left for a reason, and you need to find out why.

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