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Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

Hi. I was dumped in a LDR 5 months ago. We went NC immediately. I never contacted him and vice versa. Last Saturday, he texted me, wishing me Happy New Year and hope i'm doing just fine. Should I be a sport and reply him thanks? but deep down it's eating me up. I try not to think and associate anything... I'm still healing... What do you think I should do? I know it's nothing special and I'm so stupid...

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

He dumped you - and now texts you happy new year greetings (late) He's bored or just testing the waters and wants to see if you are still open to a realtionship. Only you can answer that. But surely, you don't trust him any more. Not someone who DUMPED you and put you through so much pain.

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

it's so hard and confusing. one hand i fear the risk of never hearing from him ever again and the hurt he put me through, my pride is telling me he ought to do more...but i also fear that this is nothing...oh gosh...

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

Well, sometimes it takes two wacks with a bat to start seeing things clearly. Go ahead and try it again - if you think you MUST. But surely, there are some trust issues that you will have with him right from the get-go. What did YOU learn from being dumped? (Hey, I speak from experience. I got dumped and he married TWO months later. I hear he is miserable. That's what he deserves. My lesson was to never be that vulnerable again to another man. I am wiser now in my new relationship with a much better man.)

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

ok, i did the worst. I replied the text cheerfully. No reply from him. Guess this is it. somehow i'm hurt.

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

You got your answer. That was cruel of him to bait you like that.

Ex wished me??? What should I do? Help!!

Nothing gained, nothing lost. count your blessings and get on with your life and let the chips fall where they may. life is a place to learn so do just that. An after thought, maybe his new love got your message to him and tore it up. ?????????????????????????????????????????

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