I wasn't sure how to turn to anyone else for this. Nor do I still feel comfortable with asking this question out of all of the people who will consciously try to make it worse. But I have a friend, and she's been like that for so long. Eventually, I believe I started to fall in love with her. Neither of us have been flirty with one another out of fear of what might come between us. I don't know if she was completely oblivious about how I felt towards her because honestly, I want to be with her. One night, she was with a bunch of her friends at an ice skating rink. She met this guy and ever since she did, her and I have been straying farther apart due to her being with him. I know this is nothing to take out on him, her, or myself but I just feel completely betrayed. It's become quite annoying to me out of how much she talks about him, and I really am happy for her. Every once and a while I'll just feel hurt, because she decided on someone else. I've learned to cope with it and to be honest I have tried to move on. But it'll still just find a way back into my life and I don't know what else I can do to just keep it out of me.
I was in the exact same situation a long time ago. It hurt soooo bad :-( I loved him so much! I ended up telling him how I felt and I left it in his hands. We never did get together in the end and it crushed me . I just started distancing myself from him . I eventually got over him but I do still think of him occasionally . We still talk but just as friends. He's in a relationship and so am I. My heart hurts for you :-(
Sparrow - you missed the boat.
She's not a mind reader, you know.
How was she supposed to know how you felt?
Please learn from this mistake. The next time you want to move a relationship forward SPEAK UP!