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We had sex and I have feelings for him

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So I went on this trip with my school. When I was there this guy who goes to my school kept asking if I wanted to hang out with him and I said yes. So we have sex but it wasn't like meaningless sex because after he held my hand walked me down the hall way, bought me dinner, kissed me on the cheek in front of everyone! But we got back to school Monday and I really really really like this guy like a lot! And I wanna tell him but I don't know how because I feel like I'm not his type. Everytime I see him I go crazy and I can't find the words to say to him. I know that sounds stupid but that's how I feel. All my friends say I should be up front with him but I don't know what do y'all think I should do?

We had sex and I have feelings for him

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just tell him how you feel you'll know soon enough if it was only sexual

We had sex and I have feelings for him

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I guess I'm getting old: you had sex - the most intimate act two people can have, and now you can't TALK to him? If you are old enough to have sex with a young man then you should be woman enough to talk to him afterwards. The fact that he did not come up to you makes me feel like he got what he wanted, and now he's done. (In my day, people got to know each other very well before getting intimate. Nowadays, it's the sex first.)

We had sex and I have feelings for him

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Towilove, SUSIEDQ has hit the nail on the head with a 12lb sledgehammer. Where's the respect for yourself if you have sex with guy after just meeting him? He's treated you disdainfully, but you have enabled him to do so. Step back and have look in the mirror and ask yourself if you want to be treated this way, even if you describe the sex as meaningful?!? Your friends advise you to be upfront with him??...you already have been in the most direct way!

We had sex and I have feelings for him

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There is saoo may nee wong in dis post. Seriously though. An open vagina is ...what's the other word for that? Oh yeah. Not respected as much. Talk to him. You're a woman now, aren't you?

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