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hie.. I am a 24 yrs old girl. i am in a long distance relationship since last 2 years. i came into relationship because my partner told me that he will marry me, He will convince his parents. But in this two years of relationship he came to know about my negative points like my reactive nature and possessiveness. I reacted once when he told me that he will not be able to convince his parents.Now even he is not ready to accept me, because he thinks he will not be happy with me. Now it hurts me a lot . He tells that he will be loyal to me and will help me to recover, but he will not marry me after knowing all the aspects. I am a good looking girl and he is having a dull personality. Still i don't want to leave him . What to do. because i know him, he has not any affair but he don't want to continue this relation. Should i continue the relation without any future. or i should move on..because it hurts when he don't pamper me anymore.

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End the relationship it is over..... Who gives him the power to punish and control you..... You made a mistake , and long distance is stressful and maybe it is not for you and him. You said it yourself, you are a good looking girl and should be out celebrating ..... Your words are 'you came into the relationship because your partner told you that he will marry you' that is not the case anymore hence their is no motive left here for you to stay.... Helping you recover !!!!!! From what ?? having a emotion to bad news..... There is nothing wrong with you to recover from he sounds like a control freak.... you deserve better and to be able to express who you are..... not thinking of marrying someone.... move on there is no future ..... only one where you cannot have your own mind.... You should not be punished like this.....he may want to continue this relation on his terms who does he think he is?? and screw his folks they do not know who you are...... get a guy who is grown up enough to be with a girl before asking his parents ..... you had a lucky escape girl....

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He is not ready and he is not mature enough for marriage. You do not seem compatible. Move on and find another man.

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