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I asked the girl I'm dating to spend a bit more time with me because we haven't spent much time together recently her reply was "She wants to focus on her life". A bit more which is ok because I know that life is important and so is education. She agreed to try and spend more time with me. Asoon as I mentioned I have to go to college tomorrow so goes mad at me and starts to ignore me. It's almost like She expects me to be ok with her being busy but when It comes to me She doesn't like it. I don't know what to do because I really like this girl and It's becoming a problem. I feel as if she doesn't care. Is it just me or is it her?

Online relationship problem

It's your choice Danjo, whether you want to be with a woman who obviously doesn't think that much of you because if she did, she would spend as much time as possible with you, regardless of the circumstances. If you sense that "it's almost like she expects me to be ok with her being busy but when it comes to me she doesn't like it" then it's telling you all you need to know about her and your relationship with her. All successful personal relationships, whether it's dating, engaged, marriage etc are a two way street. Ask yourself if yours is.

Online relationship problem

It's her. Just as you are willing to give her space and time, she needs to be willing to do the same for you. It could be that she's worried about you being off at college with other people... Other girls... I think you know what I mean. And I'm sure you are not that type of person, but speaking from experience (I'm a girl...) I know that girls can be over dramatic and they assume the worst. It sucks but it's in their nature. Give it time.

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