So in the beginnging of the school year I met this guy in my geometry class. I had seen him around before and I always thought he was super attractive I use to have a godly little crush on him. He always ended up talking my attention in the hallways. Then me being me I was always afraid to go up and talk to him so I never did till he was in my class. We started to become friends and stuff and like he asked me for my number. I gave it to him sand we were messing around he tried getting in my pants and I wouldn't let him. So then something happened later on to make him made so we basically stopped talking and he didnt like me anymore and neither did I. But he adventually stopped being mad at me and we starting becoming better friends. Then like my bestfriend makes me choose between me and him and I choose neither so it gets complicated and she blames me for turning Kaleb on her. So me and Kaleb are back to being pretty good friends we start texting more and shit. Then like one day he comes up behind me and puts his hands on my eyes and say guess who and I'm like Kaleb. So I basically end up falling for him once again but I hide my feelings knowing I can't have him. Then my other bestfriend becomes friends with benefits with him and then she starts falling for him sooo I shove my feelings away and let them be together. Then like for some reason me and Kaleb get even closer and eventually one day when were riding on the bus back to the school from snowboarding together we get down and dirty and then after that we become even better fiends but then all of the sudden he got cold and like ik now that he's mad at me because I cut but I just don't know what to do and wether or not I should tell him I have feelings for him and I don't know if be might for me either or if he's just using me.... What should I do
I think you two should really get to know each other better as friends first before doing anything more. Maybe he is feeling either unsure of things or feels bad about what went down between him and your best friend prior. If your best friend who made you choose between them or him was really yoru best friend they wouldn't do that to you. There should be a way to work things out with balance. If anything your best should be supporting you not trying to make you pick sides. If you can sit down and have a chat with him and let him know how you feel. I'm sure he will listen to what you have to say. The same goes for your best friend,let'em know how things are and how you feel. In the end hopefully they both will understand and all will be worked out. I say go for it. Tell him how you feel. You only live once. Then if he starts acting shady you'll know for sure if he is a keeper and not using you. Stay strong! And I hope I helped you out.
I mean if he starts acting shady you'll know for sure if he is using you. And if he doesn't act that way after you tell him about things then he is a keeper.
Well I did and he never responded. But I was also drunk so who knows.
Oh girlfriend - WAKE UP!!
He is a user and he pays attention to you when he wants something.
Good guys don't treat their ladies like that.
PS - if he is "messing around" with alot of girls, make sure you get checked out for STDs and AIDS.