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Be in the place that I hate to live in or be homeless for the girl that I love?

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Relationship advice I went away to go to school, while I was there I met a girl, we had a relationship. Well I messed up and I drop the ball and made her upset for many reasons. On spring break, she calls me up and we broke up. l I told my parents I thought we broke up was for a certain reason over a misunderstanding with her daughter. After graduation I move back home and I am still living there because of the poor economy I can't get a job in my field (my degree is business administration). Well fast forward two years we reconnected and we talk about our problems, but many things have changed she moved away from the her town to be closer to her parents which is seven hours from where I live. We were in the process of getting back together, I told my parents what I was doing. They said if you go, we are kicking you out, so I didn't go and we broke up again. Now in March we start talking again just as friends but we realise we still have deep feeling for each other. I am worried that if I go see her again next weekend, I will get kicked out. So what do I chose, the place that I hate to live in or be homeless for the girl that I love.

Be in the place that I hate to live in or be homeless for the girl that I love?

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Take your thoughts back and ask yourself truthfully why you both didn't connect properly that first time.

Regardless of how your parents feel about your relationship with this girl, you need to look at whether you both can make it work this time around.

If you can, then you won't have a worry in the world but if you can't, then you're better off moving on completely.

If you have deep feeling for each other, then nothing will stand in your way but if you're having reservations (your post) about the whole thing, then your relationship is not your top priority.

You still have doubts, otherwise you would be with her.

Be in the place that I hate to live in or be homeless for the girl that I love?

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That is a VERY severe reaction from your parents.

WHY are they so upset about this girl?

You sound like you are in the middle of an impossible choice. Why is that?

Be in the place that I hate to live in or be homeless for the girl that I love?

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Sweet Oakolo,
If you ever want to have a real life with a real girl, you have to start by being your Own man, and Begin your Beguine by cutting your parents Out of your lollipop loophole. If you want this girl, love her, and you have a chance to find some happiness and romance, then start taking back your life, by taking the bull by the horns.
Go online, and start by applying for Jobs in her area. And while you are doing That, continue your job search for just Anything right now, so you have some pocket money to save enough to get a car, and be able to eventually move out there to start a new life.
As far as "next weekend" goes, tell them you are spending this with a friend of yours. Make the most of what you need to do to protect your bubble until you are out from under their barn yard roof, and are Then able to float your own boat.
Good luck.xx

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