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What does all this mean and why is this??

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Say u met a woman from off of a site. You met in the flesh like what each other sees and you keep telling her you want to date her, she is feeling you so much though. All of a sudden, YOU get informed that you have to work odd hours due to a schedule change in your shift. But according to you, you had a feeling this was going to happen because you dealing with construction as a foreman. You just began starting making good money now a weekly rate...Meanwhile, the calls and text aren't calling and texting anymore because of you and your busy job situation. The woman text you and asks if you are still interested in her, you text back yes. She asks you back, are you sure you still are, and again you respond back Yes. Finally she calls you while your at work to find out where your head is as oppose to what's going on with the no hear from. You inform her that works been kicking your behind, you trying to get your own place, and work has been swamped, tired of being broke and want a life of your own. Then then you tell her that it takes patience for all that to happen since you claim you been on this job for not even a short while of months. You both still talk every now and then but not as much when you first started out doing because of your odd hours. Meanwhile, you visit the site you met her off of just to browse and add collection of female friends to still meet & greet, she notices you are online from the "online status", but wont tell you right then and there but will bring it up to you on why you still on there when you claim to be interested in her. Your only response it that you're bored. You're bored to do that to pass up time while as a foreman at outside work field, but too busy to talk to her on the phone when bored. So from a man's point of view, why would a man do this? You seek someone with the same bedroom qualities as you, You're an Alpha male, she told you she too is the same way, you both are single, don't have time for games, looking for a real woman and you also like the woman you just met, claim you want to date her one day, always talking about your swamped in wok with your hours, she can barely hear you on phone due to drilling and background noise. On the other hand, You haven't even gave her a chance to see what she is really about with what she said and yet you still online site you met her from off of. Why would a man do this? What is the meaning of it?

What does all this mean and why is this??

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Ugh, the tense you've wrote this in is so confusing. You really should have wrote in the third tense, the first tense just makes it very confusing and only detracts from the clarity on your explanation of your situation. As such I can only give basic rudimentary advice towards this situation. From the looks of it, this guy demonstrated an interest in you, he didn't plan for the situation of his job working odd hours. If he knew he didn't plan for it very well. As such he now wants to focus on this job so he stays in it, as it's clearly important to him. As for coming online when at work, he probably didn't talk to you because he had very limited time. I know when I've got like 10-15 minutes at a computer I don't bother talking to someone who I will end up have a full blown conversation with, because when it starts getting into that full blown part, it's already time to leave. Which is irritating. Plus he probably wants some instant relaxation. Something he can immediately do without waiting. He has no reason to string you along so therefore you can believe his feelings to be true, but he's demonstrated he has simple life hassles in the way of those feelings. And developing them further. I hope that helped somewhat.

What does all this mean and why is this??

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If he is REALLY interested in you, then he would use those 15 minutes to talk to YOU - not post messages to a large group. He is unable to commit and likes to fill his boredom time with meaningless activity. I have a feeling his job is not the reason for this behavior. That's just the way he is.

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