Hi! Pls help me need an advice..
I am a 24 yrs old woman.. Do have a bf for almost 5 yrs.We haven't do that thing ( you know what i mean).. We always go out 3 or 5 days a week beacuse his busy in saturday and sunday.. I always call him every time i miss him.. But lately he change he always forgot his phone everytime we go out.. Or even angry if i call him, he said "you always get my attention, i dont have time anymore for myself just even cleaning the house i couldnt do it beause you always calling me" i was speechless at this time i was really crying beacuse i didnt notice that i already stealing his time.. What should i do to fix myself or make it better for the both of us.. Pls hrlp me thank you !!
Hi take it easy..... you are a little shocked because this is the first time you felt his rejection.
He sounds like he is stressed out and is in need of some space,your probably got him at the wrong time.
What you can do is text him something like 'sorry upsetting you was not my intention, I am going to give you some space, I am here if you need me'.....
That way he knows you care for him, but you get it.
Leave it for some time and see how things develop. He will appreciate that you are concerned for him.
When communication is back, then have a talk with him. You are together 5 years and should be mature enough to discuss issues, including the lack of intimacy that you opened your discussion with. This may very well be a factor.
sooo 5 years and you haven't "done that thing"? Do you think HE hasn't "don't that thing" in 5 years?
No "thing" in 5yrs
Busy every weekend
Gets upset when you call
You know he could just NOT answer the phone if he were busy when you happened to call. He doesn't need to throw a little fit about it.
Something's fishy here.
He sounds like he has a commitment on the weekends and gets angry at you for calling.
Are you sure you are not the "other woman."?
Could he be using you for a "cover"?
I agree with SusieDQ. Something just doesn't add up here. You are no longer his priority and he feels you are wasting his time! Has he fallen out of love with you?
Time for a serious talk with him Vanz.