thank you for your helpful advice but i have more-on june 1st i started a diary of my relationship with she shelley...i was supposed to stay at her place till around 6;30pm but at 2;00pm she decided that she was tired and she wanted to have a nape so she told me that i should leave now because she wants to have a nape on the couch....she couldnt just have her nape in the bed room no... so i grabed all my stuff and left.ok the next time i stayed there i went to the store to buy some scratch n wins and i left my phone at her place when i got back i noticed that she had gone in to my phone to check my texts so i got upset and said let me look in your phone texts she was very relucktent to let me look in her phone she it would be ok as long as she held the phone and again i see that she was texting some other guy again so i said screw this im done and went home.she called me about a week later and said that she is sorry and that she was 2 days late on her period so i said i will help her in any way posible and we started to date again she went to the doctors and found out that she wasnt pregnent and it was just stress...now we are still dating but i havnt seen her in almost 3 weeks because of her new job she works from 10am too 6pm and is always tired and doesnt want to see me because she is tired and we only talk in the morning and at nite just before she goes to bedb she said that she wants to start all over again and that her boss is going away on wensday and she will have more time to she me?? so what do you think??what should i do???i really care about her but this is driving me crazy HELP ME PLEASE????
Long distance relationship is difficult in itself. For it to work out you need complete transparency and absolute commitment. Then only trust will come in. This girl seems to be lacking in both. Feelings alone won't get you through the relationship.
It's too early to tell which way this is going - but be sure to have safe sex with her. You don't want her to get pregnant!
so she works and 8 hour day and then is too tired to see you? I really don't think this is going to end well for you. I have worked 12 hour days and was still able to drive and hour to see the person I love for an hour or two. Relationships take work and sacrifice at times. If she isn't putting in her share then I really think you should step back and make sure you are not investing your feelings too deep in this thing. You may be on a road to heart break,