Will he come back?
In March I met a 19 year old male and we began speaking and he began initial flirting. We went to gym once and then he became distant aand I thought nothing of it and moved on.
About 2 weeks ago he contacts me, we began talking and once again he initialises the flirting. He begins to get serious talking about us being together however, talking about us being together and so on. I started to develop feelings for him. This past Friday he came over and we kissed and cuddled. After he left he became distant. Today I asked him where we stand and he said "I just feel we have moved too fast and its just that I don't feel ready for a relationship or moving on. I can't concentrate on my studies and I don't know what to do"
I told him if he feels that way we shouldn't be together and he apologised over and over and asked if we could still be close. He is supposed to come over on Sunday for a lunch... but I will see him Friday night at a party. Will he come back? What do I do? He is a capricorn man.
He gave you an honest answer.
If you are willing to move slowly, then he could be worth it. OR he is the type who over-thinks everything and will never really make a move one way or the other.
Be patient; school is almost out. But I'd be firm, if i were going to be exclusive to him and only him. No use putting your life on hold for nothing.
You did a great move by telling him that you two didn't need to be together. Every one should know their limits. If you can not have him popping in and out and being close one min then distant another then stay away for sure.
As to if he will come back or not. There is no way to know.