Just friends or more?
So here's the thing. My boyfriend and I have been dating a while. We're young, our friend circles are kind of big and because we are cute we're accustom to getting attention from the opposite sex all the time. I come from a family that loves to show emotions but he's an army brat. I would love for him to show me more love because I'm always giving him chocolates, cooking for him, the likes, he's trying but the guy is made of stone. Anywho, around two months into our relationship, I stopped talking to some of my other guy friends because he said he never talked to any other girls and I felt it wouldn't be right to still talk to guys that like me. I really do love him, I swear. however, recently, he told me he started back talking to a girl he meet in high school and they liked each other. he says its nothing and she has a boyfriend but why on god's green earth would the girl tell him to tell me, "if they are just friends" that they started back talking.
I don't mind if he talks to other girls, look but don't touch, but why do I feel that girl only told him that to make me jealous and for us to break up so she could go with him?
As I said, I really love this guy and there isn't a thing I HAVEN'T sacrificed for him, and I put up with all his ways, but should I be scared? how should I know if to more on? Btw my bf said Im his first love and he would never cheat on me...what do I do???
Do nothing - and chill out! Both you and your BF need to have LOTS of friends, and that includes people of the opposite sex.
If this gal wanted your BF and he wanted her, then they would act on it. He has told you that he's devoted to you and is just talking to her.
When you get older you will know how to have friends and how to have a serious lover. There IS a difference.
thank you for the advice...I should mention we're both legal...i'll really try not to think about worrying about him talking to a girl who he used to like. it just really bothers me for some reason. but as I said, im open to the philosophy of "look but don't touch"
I think the friend wanted you to know to avoid this very problem. It sounds ok as long as you are ok with the whole chatting it up with other girls thing.