Girlfriend hasn't spoken to me in three days
I have been with my girlfriend for seven months now but over the last month we have argued a lot mainly because of me, she used to talk a lot on the phone and tx constantly whether its flirting or banter but now every phone call i have lasts about 5 10 mins and don't get many tx at all shes out with her friend a lot and sometimes i don't hear of her for hours and she would always tell me everything and put my feelings first i understand the honeymoon period is over but i always put effort in and I'm not getting it back then i normally say something that will start a argument , we are normally very happy and have a really strong relationship we planned on getting engaged but we had a massive argument and i said some pretty horrible things and she said she didn't want to see me and needed space and will talk wen she's ready but i like to communicate and sort it out straight away, we use to but the last arguments we haven't but I'm working away for two weeks so i really wanted to patch things up get engaged before i left but she wasn't replying to my tx or my calls so i bought some roses and surprised her at her nans were she lives , but wen she opened the door she looked at me and walked away her friend and nan told her to talk to me and we had a chat i gave her the flowers and ring and got engaged we hugged and kissed and made up a bit but she was still really angry well i left after 30 hour because she had plans she told me to tx her wen i got home so i thought we were back on talking terms i gave her a tx wen i got back but no reply so i phoned and she cancelled and tx back okay and that was it , we always speak before bed so i phoned her she cancelled again and said I'm going to sleep so i wrote back good night and love you but she didn't reports and i no she's mad and every write to be but that did hurt me and it's been over two and a half days now and she's still not speaking to me apart Frome one call wen i wouldn't give up ringing i just wanted to no were i stand she told me she doesn't want to break up and she still wants to be engaged but needs time but this is really starting to stress me out now so i would appreciate any advice of people who's been in my shoe's
Every relationship has its moments were you don't know wear you stand. In those moments both of you should be trying not only you. You are now engaged, and you can't act like kids and don't talk to each other. You need to go up to her and ask her what she really wants. Next time that you guys argue try to stay civil and don't say anything you may regret.
What was the up date smithy86? could you tell us how it ended up?