Is it possible to stay friends with my ex?
SEBNEMNUR - Jul 5 2014 at 21:50
Hi I'm a student from Turkey and I'm 16.Here is my problem.My ex and I are in the same class.He and I were really good friends before we dated.But in time,We fell in love with each other.We dated for 3 weeks but we broke up because we couldn't work things out and we realized when we were together all we did was hurting each other so this break up was out mutual decision and after we broke up he said 'I love you but this is something we have to deal with.After we broke up,we didn't talk to each other.We acted like strangers.It has been 4 months since we broke up and it's summer vacation.I still love him but I know that we are not gonna get back together.All I want is to be friends with him again.I miss our friendship.I miss all the things we used to.But I don't know if he wants to be friends again.What do you say? What should I do? And let's assume that we become friends again.you know we had a history and we we broke up we were in love with each other.So can the feelings we had come back if we become friends again ? Is there any chance?(Please consider that we'll be in the same class for 2 years)
It is possible for you to be friends with your ex, but it all depends on how mature you guys are. If an \"I love you\" was involve then their is a possibility that one if not both start to get feelings again. If you guys are going to be in a class for so long I do recommend to stay civil with each other. If you decide not to be his friend at least try to make small talk so it wont be that awkward. That way you can also be friends again slowly. You do need to understand that you had a relationship which hurt you both so if you ever become friends it wont be that same.