Long distance relationship
Am a girl of 18 ive been in a long distance relationship with my bf for nearly four months.He is nice guy,he understands me, he never gets mad at me,he bears all my bitch fits,i feel there cant be any1 better for me than this perfectly wonderful guy but i fight to him alot cos of his job.He works alot.and we hardly have time to chat,when he is on night shifts am at school in the morning that makes it worst.I fight to him all the time cos of that and everytime he just say sorry babe thats it i feel like a second choice to him,his work is more important than me to him i cannot stand this anymore i got lots n lots to share i want to spend some time talking to him as any other gf-bf does but we cant even have that i miss him so bad.He just dont have time for me and i cant take that anymore.
I just dont know wot to do.......maybe some lil advice would help.Thanks in advance.
I hate to have to tell ya but work is part of life. no matter who your with your gonna be separated by it. Unless your with someone whose rich and doesn't have to work but then again you have to choose what kind of individual you want to be with. But working around those obstacles is part of a relationship.
You may need to take a break from him. Fill your life with other people. He has to work, you have to go to school and long distance relationships are hard. You are not there to cuddle or kiss or hold hands. If you need more out of a relationship you may need to find it somewhere else. Find others to share with. But if you are dead set on him fighting is only going to push him further. The few times you do get to speak don't fill that time with fighting.
At 18, a "talking" relationship would be very difficult to maintain.
Perhaps some time off from each other would be better. Explore other people and see what a real life relationship can look like.