Missing my wife
My wife and I split up the beginning of last year. I am living with another woman now but I really want my wife back. I love her and miss her so much. We have a 5 year old together so we see each other regularly. She wants me back as well but the problem is I work with my girlfriend and she is in a position to have me fired. I need my job so I can support my child but my heart breaks every time I see my wife because I just want to stay with her. I feel like If I break up with my girlfriend she will have me fired but I think if she breaks up with me she won't try to have me fired. So I really need her to break up with me. It has been 2 months and she still hasn't broken up with me yet even though she gets mad at me all the time. How do I get her to break up with me?
Go to your boss and explain how things are: you want to return to your wife.
Ask your boss to guide you as to how to keep working (keep your job) during this very difficult time to come.
Then do what you must.
PS - I don't understand how someone can "get" another person fired. Don't let her blackmail her. But look for a new job ASAP anyway.
go to the head of your company! whoever is above the rank of your girlfriend. call the unemployement office and ask who you need to contact. even if you have to call 100 people SOMEONE will help you. your story is like a romantic comedy. it will melt the heart of anyone you tell it to. they will help. tell them you need damage control because you are worried your bad situation could be a disaster for the company, not to mention your family. think about if this girl DOES brake uo with you. you think she is gunna still want to work with you? of course not. your job is in danger no matter what, but only if you leave the power in her hands. and when you have your safety net in place, tell this woman that there is nothing wrong with her and you did enjoy spending time with her but even a million puppies could not cure your lovesick heart. tell her you feel it is your destiny to be with your wife. if she realizes how hearbroken you are for your wife maybe even she will melt and secretly wish you and your wife back together. seek outside help and be courageous. i wish you luck
you can tell her how u feel,no female wants to be with someone who does not care 4 her,you would like to be just friends.look for another job or talk to your superiors