Lied to me
My oh was speaking on the phone in the garden then went back inside the house. i dont think he wanted me to hear him. He was talking to a male work colleague saying about a show him and me had gone to watch. He as always said to me he doesn't have anyone to talk to about things or anything to say to work colleagues except talking about work yet there he was laughing and joking on the phone. He is going away for training for a couple of days and he said he doesn't know the other lads there and will only talk about work when hes away yet i know he lied to me when he said he only talks about work when he certainly doesn't and saying he as nothing to talk about to them when he seemed fine on the phone. The company is only small who he works for and they asked where he was going because he took the day off to see the show. I thought that was unusual because when he as worked for other companies they have never bothered to ask where is he going when hes off.
What is your issue?
You have no proof that this man is cheating on you - yet you have conjured up all kinds of suspicious things about him.
You say he lies. About what?
First off you don't know that he lied to you and second off why do you even care? You wrote in your other post that recently you met a man of a dating site and your husband found out about it.
Kinda like the pot calling the kettle back don't you think? Maybe your just reflecting your own guilty conscience and dishonesty on to him.