I need help again. Advice for dating
MLMORRIS39 - Jul 25 2014 at 08:03
I met this wonderful girl. She is exactly the kind of girl that I have always wanted to be with. We are going to go on our first date in a couple of days. I am really nervous because I am 18 and this is actually the first date that I have ever had with anybody. Any tips on how to get past the nervousness? I want her to have the best experience possible. Any tips on how to make that happen? Please help. Thanks. :)
This is going to sound really silly, but don't overthink things! just take things naturally as they come. A lot of people when they go on a first date stress over what exact outfit to wear, what they will talk about, etc. Just pick clothes you are comfortable in and play it by ear. If this girl really likes you she won't be nit picky about what you are wearing, where you go on the date, etc. That being said, make sure to go somewhere fun you think she will enjoy, dress appropriately (nothing dirty, wrinkled, etc). I would even ask her opinion on where she would like to go. Hope this helps!
I dont think it sounds silly at all. Haha. It really makes sense. And I know this might sound crazy with the fact that we haven't had our first date yet, but she is my girlfriend. I asked her if she would be my girlfriend two weeks ago. She said "yes and I would be and I would love to and would be honored to be your girlfriend." But that makess me a little more nervous because I really want her to have the best time possible. Your advice did really make sense. Thanks Cupcakes. :). I will use your advice.