My relationship is starting to become distant?
Well, me and my partner has been together for a while (i prefer not to say how long) and a week and a bit ago she said to me via text that something had happened and she is busy working so she wont be available, she said she would be free the week after.However she told me today via text again she would be busy yet again and she said this also "I do not want to make things any more worse but i promise that thing will get better again." She said previously something had happened but never told me so i asked her simply what she meant then she started ignoring me. I have the impression she dose not want to see me anymore and wants us over. but she always says she really loves me and stuff so IM a little confused. I had been wondering if she decides she is busy for another week or so to talk to her about us braking up since we saw each other most of the week. What also got me was she said to me at one point she saw her friends for a few days but she doesn't have time for me anymore? I thought of contacting one of her friends to see what happened but i thought that was somewhat rude or something. Her behavouir have been strange , it could just be me being paranoid.
Your partner may want some privacy from everyone. Or, something bad happened to her and she does not want to see anyone.
It doesn't sound like much of a partner. She should be open with you and honest about what happened and give you a reasonable explanation about why she is neglecting you and not just promises.
I wouldn't contact her friends this is between you and her. She want to ignore you then you may be better off without her.
If you're truly important to someone, they will always find a way to make time for you, no broken promises, no disappointment.
Obviously what she has going on is more important than you or the relationship. She no longer has the same priorities, esp if she's giving you the silent treatment as a means to shut you up/that she didn't want to discuss her "reasons" why she's too busy or what happened.
I'd take her actions as a sign that the relationship is coming to an end. Don't let her treat you like crap, you deserve better.
Don't ignore the signs and a person's actions will tell you everything you need to know. Heed her actions- not her words. Currently she's ignoring you, what gf does that to a man she claims to respect/love. Her withdrawal/distance from you is not good-if she doesn't talks to you soon and explain herself, I would end it. Regardless the circumstances, it doesn't justify treating you like crap. And couples are supposed to go through the hard times together/support one another etc.