Recently separated from husband
SWEET CHEEKS - Jul 28 2014 at 00:56
I need advice or some guidance from anyone who has experienced something similar to what I am going through. Recently married long term partner all going extremely well, blissfully happy, we planned out first baby straight away. Baby one week old and husband informs me he is remembering he was abused as a child and that he no longer loves me and that he cannot be with me any longer. I have tried giving him space, listening to him, supporting him and pushing him to face up to things and his responsibilities as a father but nothing is working. He repeatedly tells be he doesn't love me anymore that all his feelings are gone and he's not the same person anymore. I don't know what I am meant to do, I am hurting so much that this person I love and planned a life with is hurting me and pushing me away like this. Should I stand by him And give him time? Should I move on and accept things will never be the same? We are separated a month now, while I continue to raise our newborn alone. I feel so lost and alone.
Yes, try and get him some help. He can't just shrug off responsibilities like that. How long have you been together?