Hi guys im 17 and im the last two years ive had 56 relationships now i know this isnt right but i find it hard to stay single,now im not having sex with each one far from it three people only but the issues im having is falling in love i say the word i love you to much to a girl and altho they say it back its not love now ive been going out looking for somone but no i want somone to find.me but is it wrong that i want a girl who will apprchiate me for ho i am,and have play fights and o the other romantic stuff is there such girls ? the trouble im having is i keep looking .
if any one can help me any help is apprichiated
You are not ready for any kind of long-term relationship - most 17 year old guys aren't.
In the meantime, practice safe sex (you don't want to be a baby-daddy at your age) and learn to respect girls more. You might try an older woman who can teach you some stuff.
You don't seem to have the attention span long enough to be committed to one person for any length of time.
so doing the math on that it would seem your "relationships" last on average 14 days each. For one I'm suppressed you even kept count. And for two, two weeks does not make a relationship.
It is completely normal for a 17 year old to practice having a relationship, and to casually date many people in their search for a partner.
I don't think its really "love" you are falling into. Its more like desire or lust, or infatuation. Love is a deeper feeling and usually not obtained over a 14 day period and 56 times in two years.
The girls in your age range are trying to do what you are doing, finding out who they are, finding out what they want in a partner, finding out how to approach the opposite sex and what works in a relationship and what does not.
There are great women out there with the qualities you are looking for. It is hard to take a man seriously when he says "I love you" if he has said it to every girl he has talked to for 2 weeks or longer. Slow down. Understand the difference between infatuation and love. Say "love" when you mean it other wise it looses its value.