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Ok, so had a bad one night stand - i think it was bad for both of us - we both have something to lose. I would like some closure but also don't want to extend the situation either. We did the typical "yeah lets get lunch thing" and i got her number. Tried to be a good guy, tried calling, sent a text, in message said i hoped we could put off a lunch, thought it would be btter for both of us, is that ok, had a good time, was fun, etc. A nice message. No reply. I am fighting my mind to try again as I THINK the likely thing here is -she doesn't want contact either, and it's easier to just let it drop. Should i try again? or if i got no response to a call or text from a nice message, is the answer, "let it go."

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Yeah let it go. There is a reason why they are called "one night" stand. It lasts one night. You just say the other stuff to make it sound nicer. She didn't reply. She wants no contact. Though I am curious as to what made it a "bad" one night stand. still she doesn't want contact to continue.

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Thanks. That's helpful. I've been sweating it thinking no response means there is some other issue.

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btw by bad i meant, just something we probably both wish we didn't do the next day in terms of our relationships in our lives.

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