I've had a crush on this girl for about a year. We would sit next to each other in our math class (senior year in high school) and talk and flirt/flirt touch all the time but I could never tell if she liked me romantically/sexually. She has had an on and off boyfriend for like 3-4 years and he's kind of my friend so I didn't want to ask her out while they were dating. The girl I like would talk to me about her boyfriend and about how she was mad at him and he kissed another girl while they were dating and etc... But she would rarely talk about him. This all happened during school January-June. We didn't talk/text much during the summer until recently I asked her to go to lunch and she said yes. It went well and was really fun and I love talking with her. I tried asking her to hang out a couple times but she said she was busy every time. She is not a drinker or party person and she knows I like to get a bit tipsy and party hard, so I was surprised when she recently last week texted me she was drunk and then called me saying now we can party together. As of now her and her boyfriend are still together but will be breaking up for college in different states. But I will be going to a different college in the same city as my long time crush!
So I really need help. Does she like me more than a friend? Should I ask her out once they break up? What should I do or tell her and when? Please help!!
You say they are still together. So THAT tells you something. She is flirting with you, getting attention from you that she should be getting from him. She is using you. You need to stop that.
Step back. Stop all communication with her. She is teasing you right now.
If you two get to college and she matures a little, AND she has no boyfriend, then begin talking to her.
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