I met him almost two years ago,, I had many reasons to fall for him,, the main reason was that we both were lookin for love. Im a divorced single parent who was in need for love and to feel an existance of a kind man beside me and he was a married man facing alot of misunderstandings in his marriage,, I know u may not be interested to read more about my problem now that i mentioned he is married, but i found my match, and i promissed myself to just be +ve in his life.. one year past and it was great, we could manage to meet for couple of hours every week and we used to talk alot over the phone untill he told me that he is goin to be very busy due to new project at his job and he asked me to bare incase we couldn't see eachother regurarly as we used to,, i did as he asked me but by the time i felt neglected, forgotten,so we started to have problems mainly about seeing eachother, i wanted more time, he wanted more patience. finally we faught and i left.. one month later after we both suffered being away from eachother, we got back again and i was scared at the same time i thanked my god for having him back, i love him. now that we r back he stopped callin me,, he just sends me few msgs every day while he is goin to work or back to home and we meet once a week for couple of hours and when i asked him about the reason he is acting this way with me as if he is keepin distance,, he told me " i need alwasy to miss u my love".. he is tryin to convince me that if our love is the TRUE love then it stays alive no matter how less we may meet or talk,, !! and he is tellin me that in true love we just give and give and give.. i want to know is this the true love??. for me the love is just as a flower,, needs alot of care and attention to grow,, and these should be from both sides,, .. what should i do?.. he doesnt want to talk anymore,, he is happy with few msgs daily and couple of hours a week,, and he is talkin about True love!!!. am i being fooled?? .. should i give and give and give to recive couple of hours a week??.. should i be proud my love to him is a true one since i can be happy with little care from my man?.. is he takin disadvantage ?? .. i would love to know others openions about my problems.. many thanks to all.
hi ,read your problem and i assume this man is still with his wife,and basically he he has you on the side hes using his job as an excuse to why hes busy and can only see you when it suits him,you dont say if you both want to be together at some stage, they say if your seeing a married person if they dont leave their other halves with in 6months they never will,he wants the best of both worlds .i can tell your besotted with this man and he knows it and he will use this against you to keep you loving him and its working,you have to be strong and tell this amn where to go he will never leave his wife and has no intention of ever doing so ,so your the only one who can end this and build your life cos when it ends he,ll still have his family and you,ll have nothing and would have wasted your life away.