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I met a man through on line dating only once so far. We had a hour talking then he went away sent me a texted an hour later to say it was nuce meeting and if I want to meet again to let him know. I said I did and did he and he said yes then the next day he sent a message asking how I was and I said when did he want to meet and he said yes he did then the next day he sent a message saying did I want to meet i said yes, he said we will make an arrangement and he was going shopping then I heard nothing. I went back on the dating site and he was on it late at night, I thought I would check it to see if he was on it and i was checking to see if anyone else had sent me a message on there. I sent him a text to say I saw he was on line and then he took his picture off after awhile. He said I was on there too and at least he took his picture off and I hadnt. The next day I sent him a message to say I dont know why he took his picture off and that I was checking to see if he wss on there. Now I sent him one ssying should we start again and he sent one back saying, yes but you know I am busy to day and away tomorrow back some time Sunday so wont he able to text that much as wont have charger so up to you. So should I bother at all? Im sure he fiuld take his charger and after sering him on line when he hadnt messaged me after saying he was going shopping and didnt get bsck to me. He said he didht want to appear pushy and he kepted asking to meet. I thought he liked me but when I saw he was on line I knew he was looking already for someone else.

Bother or not

Just because you messaged him does not mean that he is exclusive to you. Why do you think he is even on line? Be sure you meet him in a PUBLIC place like a coffee shop. You do not know this man or even if he is what he says he is. Better to meet men in person first, like at sports or interest groups.

Bother or not

Do not bother. It is only a chatline.

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