Living with another woman
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. About 1 year ago, he left the state that I'm in to go and stay with his family because of some family difficulties. I can't leave where I'm at because of school and job, he cannot live where I am because of my job. A week ago he told me that he's going to move, on on from where he is now, and go live with a friend of his. Then he told me that his friend is a woman, but their JUST friends! Well, he doesn't call me as often as he used to, and he told me that he calls her everyday to talk about his move, which will take place at the end of Oct. He has told me several timesthat there is nothing going on between them, but I have a really hard time believing that. Why does he have to live with a friend that's a woman? I feel like this is cheating on his part on us. I would just like to get your opinions please, I asked him to find a place near me, but I never got an answer from him. Thanks for listening.
Family difficulties, my bottom.
Friend, my bottom.
Sorry (for you) to have to say: He's a coward who followed some woman who lives near his family (whom he probably met during whichever visit you didn't accompany him on, or over the internet), nurtured a relationship with her WHILST KEEPING YOU STILL WARM ON THE SIDE JUST IN CASE IT DIDN'T WORK OUT, and now it's worked out sufficiently to the point where they're moving in together. Either that or he moved straight in with her, NOT his family, and only now has decided he wants to TRY emotionally committing to her that bit deeper, hence you're now somewhere between surplus to requirements, and handy to keep around for longer *if you're willing* under this wholly false pretense to remain his back-up sucker. Enter, therefore, his now daring to HINT to that effect by telling you, whom he should yet is failing to call daily, that he's calling HER daily.
Little wonder you have such a hard time believing him.
Dump the dud for having used you for over a year.
Yes, move on from this guy because his actions are speaking and I'm sorry, but you are just not his priority. Of course you're having a hard time believing him because you instinctively know that what he is doing is wrong and it's basically betrayal. Listen to your instinct and move on.