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I'm 23, and my boyfriend is 33. We've been having sex for almost 2 years now, and have been pretty serious for the last year. He's very advanced sexually and spiritually. We recently got into a discussion about 3-ways and/or couple swapping. I'm not very keen on the idea right now because the thought of him having sex with someone else makes me cry, but he's completely fine with me sleeping with someone else. He says he's confident enough to know that he's better at satisfying me sexually than someone else, i.e. I wouldn't leave him for sex with someone else..but I don't like the idea of someone else satisfying him sexually, because what if that means I'm not enough? I was raised in a nuclear family, so it's hard for me to wrap my mind around the concept. I guess I'm just not sure how to feel about it all. I would maybe okay with it in the future though, but it's not like I have a crystal ball. I'm so confused.

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I undrstnd hw u feel...
If my bf said tat to me,i vud say him to go to hell.
Bt try to undrstnd him too...
May b he jst want smthng different...
Take tis chance nd set him with a grl who u knw vry wel that she cant satisfy him sexually...
Then u tel him tat d prsn u sleep wit satisfied u mre than him...

May b then he vud undrstnd ur value nd may b tis vud stop his ego tat he s d one who cn sexualy satisfy u...
Giv him d benefit f doubt...

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Nope - it's not going to work.

I wonder why you didn't walk out the door when your "sexually and spirtually advanced" man wants you to have sex with another man (while he watches?) and he wants to have sex with another woman.

Ye gods, gal. Get away from him!! Ick!! (No wonder he's 33 and single. any exes in his life? You are kind of young for him. Any woman over 30 would have nothing to do with a guy like that)

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