I am an IT Professional and have faced a problem with my girlfriend whom I proposed long back in my 8th standard. When I proposed to her, she told me to continue with studies and she also told me that it is better that we think of our career first. Listening to her, I concentrated on my career and went on to become an IT professional. Once I achieved my goals, I went back to her. However, I found out that she, by that time is already engaged. I am feeling very defeated and I feel like telling her once about it (me being a very introvert person in this perspective, I am not able to communicate it properly to her). Please help me with a solution by which I can make her understand my feelings for this.
How old were you in the "8th standard" and how old are you now?
Just an added note, just because you were concentrating on your studies is no reason to keep a girl waiting. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worst. She may not have recognized your introverted personality and could have mistaken it for a loss of interest in her. THAT'S THE MISTAKE I ALMOST MADE!!!
You sound so surprised that she is engaged! Did you not talk to her all this time? (or was your head down and you were plowing through your studies but ASSUMING she was thinking the same about you)
Of course speak to her. Let her know you feel the same as you did long ago. See what happens. But don't be surprised if she has gone on with her life.
What have you learned about yourself through all this?
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