I hav a boyfriend or had a bf..v loved each odr n lately he thnks he doesnt have a future in career n he cnt spoil mine.. N forced us to brkup.. He brokeup I didnt I told him.. I wil wait.. I cnt move on n go with odr person I realy love him n I cnt move on.. I msg him each day coz I cnt Live without him n den he talks soo rudely it hurts me.. He's vry vry rude.. I want my bf back cn u help me how??
He aloso has family problms.. He has a step dad n Mom bt both doesnt cares fr him much.. I need help.. I feel lyk dying.. I am a NIFTian myself a to b designer.. Bt I cnt Live without him I need help
If he is sending you back rude messages, then he is obviously pushing you away because you are being desperate.
Whatever you plan to do in the future about this guy (I would highly recommend getting over him and moving on: http://www.relationshippsychology.com/breakups/how-to-get-over-a-break-up-belief-system),
you should first apply the no-contact rule.
Stop making contact with him for a period of three weeks. Use those three weeks to re-examine your past relationship and where you might have gone wrong and what you can do in order to improve yourself to be a better match for him. You might also realize some things about the relationship during the course of these three weeks.
After the three weeks are up, you should be in a better mental state to decide whether you really want to get back together with him and then you can re-initiate contact, or by this time, perhaps you'll have decided on a different course of action.