Friends with benefits
Hi Guys, I've slept with this guy a couple times after drunk nights out, I see him sober quite a lot, we're not good friends but we get on fairly well. He's a bit older and more mature then me and I'm not really keen on anything serious, but I do have needs and I don't want to only ever have sex when I'm drunk, so I thought with him, it would kind of be the perfect situation to do a "friends with benefits" type thing, but I don't know if this is a good idea or not and how to go about initiating it (I think we kind of discussed it once when drunk)?
Oh, why mess up something so perfect? (mindless sex with a non friend)
Just ask him; tell him if you'd like to try something. And if you don't, ask him to try and stop getting drunk around you.