hi all n tanx for reading//everytime ifight with my bf ijast go online dating to make my self to feel better is there any other other way to deal with the fight and when im upset bcs of the fight iast delete all his things in my phone and when we resolve our issue he would ask y ideleted his things iwould lie by saying my lil sister deleted all by mistake n u know she so young..sorry for bad english
If you're resorting to online dating when ye fight, then it sounds like yer arguments are big and when they happen you think there's a big chance it will be the end of your relationship. The reason I say this is that when relationships end, it's quite common for people to look for comfort elsewhere and it seems to me this is what you're doing. If you really think this relationship is worth working for, then you need to find the cause of your fights and work on resolving those issues...if you can manage to do that then the rest should fall into place.
I also think you should be honest with him and dont make excuses for your actions. Honesty is so important...
Be honest and tell your bf that your feeling inclined to do it when you fight and he might help you get past it.